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Jan 2nd I found out that dude from the church has a girlfriend and I only found out because Colleen's husband overheard him at the men's Christmas dinner talking about how he took his girlfriend to the beach.

Well, that's not me! we hadn't gone since before my surgery at the end of July.

Then! I have sex with the ass the day after he's overheard saying he has a girlfriend! But I don't find out about it FOR 19 DAYS when Colleen casually tells me this story that John had told her.

And then January 2 rolls around Colleen has John tell me exactly went down at the Men's Christmas dinner and that's when I decide to confront him, via text.

I don't know if stuff was getting lost in translation but something was. It's easier to just post screenshots of the conversation than to explain what happened.

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Words have fucking meaning! You tell someone you have a girlfriend, that implies RELATIONSHIP! While there was no label on what he and I were, he should have been fucking honest with me that he was talking to someone else. I wouldn't have had sex with him 3 times, whether or not he had a girlfriend at any point during those 3 times!

I don't see him Jan 9 because the church is closed (the Pastor was informed that he was around someone who tested positive at his job, so he was being cautious), but I do see him the following weekend on Jan 15/16. The 15th for a church clean-up: his face was continuously pinched, especially when his mother gave me a hug and some food...and he gave me like 4 weird hugs when no one was around...like my anger was due to him not hugging me enough or some shit. Jan 16 was regular church and again, he tried to cop feels and I kept pulling away from him and pushing him away from me saying not to touch me and that he lied to me. I walked away and didn't look back.

During the week, specifically Jan 19, he texts me asking if he can come over. No sir. Well...just read the texts.

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sorry if I hurt you...IF!? You don't call someone a side-chick, then turn around and say you don't have a girlfriend (making the side-chick comment a moot point) and expect there not to be hurt fucking feelings. No. You're a fully grown-ass adult. at 42 you know fucking better. And you don't know why you hurt me? fuck you very much! But thanks for acknowledging that I didn't do anything to deserve what was done to me!

Grandma from church was right. He doesn't know what he wants.

And what's a damn shame.

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Better things in another post. This is my last semester at LBCC and I'll be transferring in either the Spring or Fall of 2023. I have 3 or 4 universities in mind.
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Kim was released from the hospital on June 3rd. The hospital arranged transportation for her to get home because, at that point, she still couldn't walk much and was in pain. I also asked the hospital about having a bedside commode and wheelchair and they said they would take care of it.

On her discharge papers, it listed a company who would be taking care of those items, however by the day after her release, they still hadn't delivered them, so I called the company. Apparently they "don't do those kinds of orders" whatever that means, but the lady I spoke with said that she would talk to the manager and get it sorted out. So that was taken care of, but I still mentioned it to Kim's primary doctor's nurse and he said he would contact the company, as well the home health company as they said they'd put in a request for the items as well (but it had been weeks and Kim still didn't have them). The nurse said if it comes down to it, they have vendors they work with and he would see about putting in an order. If I didn't hear from anyone by Monday, to call him back.

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The property manager contacted me on Monday and said they put the work order in for the maintenance man to come.

So I'm thinking that because it's termites and they can do major damage, they'd be over within 24 hrs. The man came Wednesday but the bugs had been dead by then and it appeared the cinnamon was keeping them in the walls and not in the apartment flying around/by the window. When the maintenance man did his business, it was to suction up the bugs and cinnamon, clean the area with disinfectant, spray outside and put some caulking down.

I want to say within 2 or 3 hours of him doing that, I happened to glance at the A/C and oh...look at that! more dirt in a previously clean area! Nope! I took a picture and informed the property manager that while I know bug spray isn't instant, something needed to be put in the wall where the bugs are and I told them I was putting cinnamon back in the hole to keep them in.

I'm not dealing with bugs inside of the apartment with Kim.

And what of the other units? They need to be checked as well. I'm sure the property owners don't want to have to pay for living arrangements for 20 units PLUS the tenting of the building to deal with the termites. I thought at the very least, the maintenance man would spray something into the hole where the bugs are to kill them that way, because there's obviously still some in the walls.


in other news...

I think I probably mentioned how on Saturday a Healthcare nurse was coming to check on Kim to see what services she will need post-hospital stay. Physical therapy twice a week for 3 or 4 weeks, Occupational therapist twice a week for 3 or 4 weeks, and then a nurse twice a week for 2 weeks and then once a week for 4 weeks?

A nurse definitely isn't needed. I've been arranging her medication since 2017 with no problems. I have a good working relationship with all of her doctors. They've explained to me what to look for if Kim has a reaction to them. Plus, this isn't new to me. I did it for 5 months while caring for my dad in 2014 and that was while he was in hospice and much more demanding than caring for an elderly lady with walking problems.

Monday evening, the physical therapist called to make an appt for Wednesday afternoon. Then when he came, it was just the intake process where they see what she's able to do and what needs to be worked on. Then said they would call next week to set up future appts.

Shortly after that visit, the occupational therapist called to set up an appt for this morning. It was about 11:15 or 11:20 when he arrived. He did the same thing as the physical therapist with Kim and then told me that sometime next week they'd be calling to set up appts.

My only request for them is that the appts be after 11am or after 3 pm. because I'm in online class Monday/Wednesday from 8am-1030am and Kim wakes up at 10am, takes her meds, and eats breakfast...then her lunch is at 2pm and it takes her 30 minutes to eat a sandwich, a fruit cup and drink a juice pouch. Little kids eat faster and cleaner than she does! *eye twitch*


But yeah. About me!

School starts on Monday )
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So, how goes the wrapping?
I...haven't started yet. I haven't even finished my shopping because amazon has rejected my debit card like 6 times. I think since I've bought so much stuff this last week, it's waaay out of the norm from my usual purchases, because everything is still okay on my bank side. So...I have to go to Walmart this week for 1 or 2 more things

Do you actually wrap or use gift bags for everything?
Both. Small things get gift bags, larger things get wrapped. This year I'm wrapping everything because I want to get rid of the wrapping paper that I have.

How about box and ribbons? Lots and lots or the bare minimum?
Bare minimum. I'll wrap and put a bow or use ribbon on a gift bag.

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First: Yesterday a friend from church got engaged. I've been expecting it for like 3 months. Every time I saw pictures of them out someplace, just the two of them, I also expected to see a post about their engagement. Well, that happened last night.

I'm looking forward to their wedding festivities...and hoping that my friendship/relationship with her cousin progresses enough that come their wedding, we'll be each other's plus 1...but there hasn't even been a wedding date, so who knows. I'm just ready to party.

Second: I have a subscription to a record(s) of the month type club called VNYL and I was expecting the first record to be sent in January, because that's what it said on the website, however, when I got home from church and lunch today, there was a record sitting by the front door!



It's a Christmas record. Kim's sister is going to let me borrow her record player because I couldn't find the one I KNOW I have in storage. We spent like 10 or 15 minutes looking and I didn't want to get too into pulling boxes out because I was still in my Sunday clothes and my storage unit is super dusty. I'm looking forward to listening to this Christmas record on the record player.

Third: Colleen, Kim's sister, asked if I would decorate her 3ft Christmas tree if she brought it down. I said sure, so today she brought it and I decorated it.



There are no presents under it as neither Colleen or I have wrapped the things we've bought, but I know there will be gifts under the tree by Christmas Eve...at least the items that I have to wrap.

As a side, I'm surprised we didn't go to Lora's today. She asked us for some gift ideas, so I just assumed we go there for a few hrs for lunch and to open gifts. But that didn't happen. I don't know if it will happen next week, or if Lora will drive down here and leave them. I like getting gifts any time of the year.

Fourth: Good news on the church front! We are 90% certain that our first service back in the sanctuary will be on January 3. There will still be 2 services with each one limited to 30 people and about 1 hour long, but as the weather gets colder and the possibility of rain, we will have a warm and dry place and not have to cancel service like we would have if it was outside.

I didn't get a picture of myself in my church clothes like I usually do for Christmas Sunday. I also didn't have on any makeup because I ran out of time dealing with Kim. I felt bad for having John and Colleen wait for like 15 minutes as I got myself ready...but they were like an hour early! I'll be sure to get some on Christmas Day, for sure, though.
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It's [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com]'s birthday! Happy Birthday!!

Hope it's a great one!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FAVORITE DREAM, [livejournal.com profile] thtwzjustadream!!

weee!

May. 31st, 2013 05:02 pm
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Happiest of birthdays to [livejournal.com profile] tkeylasunset!!

Hope your day was great.
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Thank you bluedelft and tkeylasunset for the wonderfulness in my e-mail!

Couldn't view them on my phone but when I get to work I'll let at them and properly squeal
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So I'm just getting out the shower and someone's banging on the door but by the time I get there no one is there...and there's an amazon package sitting on the planter.

At first I thought it was the first books that I ordered and I was going to send it back...but the box was too big and rattled too much. So I opened it and HOLY CRAP! YEAH! Christmas came 4 days early!

Thanks you so much HUNTRESS69! (if I could do the LJ coding on my phone I would)

5 mystery movies and a CD!

I'm gonna try hard not to open any of the movies until Christmas Eve.

Also got confirmation on when the parental units return home. January 9. Sadly don't have a car to pick them up so I guess my sister will do that or they'll have to take the bus - depending on when they get back. Also, I don't know HOW they're getting back. It will either be by plane or train. Tomorrow I guess, I will call and find this out. Will also ask about when we will begin moving furniture back in so I can take the week off from volunteering to help...and enlist the aid of my friend who helped move us at the last. minute. Thankfully there's no rushing this time.

Speaking of packing and moving...going to put in the change of address tomorrow so that by January 10 we will get our mail back to the apartment. I don't know what my sister is going to do since she gets some mail here and some mail to our place for the kids school. I guess for her she can just wait until January 15 when the change of address expires and hope that everything gets back the way it was before.

wee!

Oct. 1st, 2012 05:14 pm
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Happiest of birthdays to [livejournal.com profile] theellibu!! Hope your day has been fantastic!
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[livejournal.com profile] lostandalone22

[livejournal.com profile] fabulousweapon

[livejournal.com profile] leosangel

Hope each of you have a truly spectacular day!
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or you know, limit me to $100 a month.

I just ordered my nephew's bday (8-5) gift and my niece's bday (9-6) gift.

Also ordered Thor, pre-ordered Snow White and the Huntsman, Prometheus, Abe Lincoln: Vampire Hunter, and Marvel's The Avengers. (love the amazon gift cards I won in raffles!)

Waiting to hear back from the BFF about the sex of her baby before I go even more crazy with the spending.
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LJ tells me today is [livejournal.com profile] willow_fae_20's birthday!

birthday greeting )

Happy birthday!! Hope you have a great day!
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reading about [livejournal.com profile] gothikmaus and when she saw "No Way Around But Through" and I'm shocked at all the people she noticed that I didn't.

She said that Autumn Reeser was at the June 30th show. I didn't see her. Not that I was paying attention for her.

and I wish I could have gone on Sunday too! Lauren German was there?

Closing weekend is out. This Saturday I'll be at an all day (kind of sort of) church event and as person responsible for the food, I kind of need to be there for opening and closing. And Sundays...well I don't like going anywhere too far because I have to be up early on Mondays and my sleep schedule is already out of whack.
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I mentioned in a previous entry that [livejournal.com profile] bluedelft gave me a Hawaii Five-0 Survival Bag and that I was going to take pictures of the contents.

click to see pics )

Let me know if I need to add a description of what the items are lol

Thank you again, [livejournal.com profile] bluedelft!!

eta it just dawned on me...we didn't get a picture of the 3 of us! we so could have done that while we were waiting! Now I'll just have to make a trip to Boston sometime so we can do that! And to sightsee too! lol
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First, super duper mega thanks to [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com] for buying a ticket for me to see Scott's play again.
Second, super duper mega thanks to [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com] for my "Hawaii Five-0 Survival Bag" (I think that's what she called it). I LOVE the stuff that's in it! I'll post pictures tomorrow...err later today. Pictures have been posted here.
Third, I didn't end up on the news! [livejournal.com profile] bluedelft will know what I'm talking about.

Now for the details.

I already mentioned that [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com] bought me a ticket to see Scott's play again while she's out here and that was today...err yesterday (Saturday), well we were supposed to meet up for dinner a couple of hours before the play, but life in general was conspiring against me or something.

My mom's car keys wouldn't start the car for some reason, so my dad spent something like 30 minutes looking for his keys, then my mom tried her keys again, and the car started up. Then, we were about 30 minutes from the Falcon Theatre when the car over heated! This is the car that had spent 3 weeks in the shop previously! IT SHOULDN'T BE OVERHEATING! We would get 2 or 3 miles and have to pull over for 10 minutes. I got to a point where I was visibly shaking because I was so pissed off at my dad. Did that all the way until about 8:10 pm when the car limped into the parking lot at Bob's Big Boy.

I ran across the street and was able to get into the play at the end of the first act. No money wasted on a ticket! Then intermission came and I was properly able to meet [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com], her sister and [livejournal.com profile] gyri. Was given my "Survival Bag" (which I promptly opened in the car and squeed over)! We watched the rest of the play (funny the 2nd time around and I had some of the dialogue memorized too) then went to the lobby to wait for the cast to come out. I had better luck this time around than I did on the 16th. I didn't get Scott's autograph, picture or a hug (like [livejournal.com profile] bluedelft and [livejournal.com profile] gyri got on Friday), but OMG I was right there with him (when [livejournal.com profile] bluedelft got a second hug)! I WAS BREATHING THE SAME AIR AS HIM! We waited around more hoping he'd come back out so I could work up the nerve to ask for an autograph or picture, but he never came back out. Oh well.

We finally got kicked out the Theatre so they could lock up and as we went out separate ways, I hustled to the stop light in time to see Scott driving away in his blue truck with Dot riding shotgun. I would have followed for like a block if I had a car!

Then on the way home...OMG! I got picked up at 11 pm and didn't get home until 1:50 am! IT TOOK ALMOST 3 HOURS TO GET FROM BURBANK TO DOWNEY! That's ridiculous! We had to keep stopping because the car was overheating! I think we maybe went 2 miles on the freeway, then took the streets all the way home. I'm sort of glad I didn't drive by myself, but OMG! My dad kept telling me I had to be the navigator and then was telling me I had to look out for the street names as well. I'm sorry, I don't have 2 sets of eyes! I can't look at the map and look at street names outside the car. He also took the long way to get to the freeway after he picked me up. I kept telling him "turn around and it's 1.5 miles back to the 101 Freeway. It's the same way Lora and I went on the 16th". he kept saying "we haven't gotten to the 101 freeway." He ended up going something like 3 miles BACK because when we got on the freeway, 3-4 miles later, we got to the street where we would have gotten ON the freeway at! DON'T ASK ME TO BE THE NAVIGATOR IF YOU WON'T TAKE MY ADVICE! I don't "re-calculate" when you gt turned around. I will fucking ignore you and let you find your own way.

now about why I didn't end up on the news...I was so pissed at my dad on the way to the play that I wanted to hit something or someone. at one point I even tweeted that I was stepping away from all electronic devices for the night. I was so mad and didn't want to put something out there that I'd have a hard time explaining once I calmed down. I'm still pissed, but there's still nothing I can do about it.

Going to read a fic before going to sleep.
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[livejournal.com profile] karraparis! Hope your day is great!!
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It's June 28 on the East Coast, so

HAPPY BIRTHDAY [livejournal.com profile] goldenthroat!!!!!!

HOPE YOUR DAY IS FABULOUS!
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[livejournal.com profile] finduilas_clln! Hope your day is awesome!
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Tomorrow, well technically today on the East Coast, is [livejournal.com profile] cancer22's and [livejournal.com profile] dante_s_hell's birthday!

and a special message! )

Happy Birthday! Hau'oli lā hānau!

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