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simplyn2deep) wrote2022-01-24 11:42 pm
simplyn2deep) wrote2022-01-24 11:42 pm
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ish went DOWN!
Jan 2nd I found out that dude from the church has a girlfriend and I only found out because Colleen's husband overheard him at the men's Christmas dinner talking about how he took his girlfriend to the beach.
Well, that's not me! we hadn't gone since before my surgery at the end of July.
Then! I have sex with the ass the day after he's overheard saying he has a girlfriend! But I don't find out about it FOR 19 DAYS when Colleen casually tells me this story that John had told her.
And then January 2 rolls around Colleen has John tell me exactly went down at the Men's Christmas dinner and that's when I decide to confront him, via text.
I don't know if stuff was getting lost in translation but something was. It's easier to just post screenshots of the conversation than to explain what happened.
Words have fucking meaning! You tell someone you have a girlfriend, that implies RELATIONSHIP! While there was no label on what he and I were, he should have been fucking honest with me that he was talking to someone else. I wouldn't have had sex with him 3 times, whether or not he had a girlfriend at any point during those 3 times!
I don't see him Jan 9 because the church is closed (the Pastor was informed that he was around someone who tested positive at his job, so he was being cautious), but I do see him the following weekend on Jan 15/16. The 15th for a church clean-up: his face was continuously pinched, especially when his mother gave me a hug and some food...and he gave me like 4 weird hugs when no one was around...like my anger was due to him not hugging me enough or some shit. Jan 16 was regular church and again, he tried to cop feels and I kept pulling away from him and pushing him away from me saying not to touch me and that he lied to me. I walked away and didn't look back.
During the week, specifically Jan 19, he texts me asking if he can come over. No sir. Well...just read the texts.
sorry if I hurt you...IF!? You don't call someone a side-chick, then turn around and say you don't have a girlfriend (making the side-chick comment a moot point) and expect there not to be hurt fucking feelings. No. You're a fully grown-ass adult. at 42 you know fucking better. And you don't know why you hurt me? fuck you very much! But thanks for acknowledging that I didn't do anything to deserve what was done to me!
Grandma from church was right. He doesn't know what he wants.
And what's a damn shame.
AND THE BIGGEST FUCKING THING! HE GAVE ME CHLAMYDIA! From that last time I had sex with him...after he was overheard talking about a girlfriend. FUCK YOU VERY MUCH AGAIN! I can't believe I nearly forgot that in all of this! I'm glad I word-vomited at the new doctor I saw on Jan 18. He asked if I wanted a test done and my knee-jerk reaction was to say no, but then there's a girlfriend in this equation, so of course, I'm not the only one he's having sex with! January 20, the doctor calls to tell me I have the STI/STD (which is it?!) and he put in the prescription for antibiotics, and thankfully it was caught early enough. My doctor asked how I was feeling about that. How do you think I feel doc!? At that exact moment, nothing. He suggested I contact anyone I had sex with to let them know and reminded me about their behavioral health options and that he put in the request for me to speak to the dietitian (that appt is on Jan 28).
Better things in another post. This is my last semester at LBCC and I'll be transferring in either the Spring or Fall of 2023. I have 3 or 4 universities in mind.
Well, that's not me! we hadn't gone since before my surgery at the end of July.
Then! I have sex with the ass the day after he's overheard saying he has a girlfriend! But I don't find out about it FOR 19 DAYS when Colleen casually tells me this story that John had told her.
And then January 2 rolls around Colleen has John tell me exactly went down at the Men's Christmas dinner and that's when I decide to confront him, via text.
I don't know if stuff was getting lost in translation but something was. It's easier to just post screenshots of the conversation than to explain what happened.
Words have fucking meaning! You tell someone you have a girlfriend, that implies RELATIONSHIP! While there was no label on what he and I were, he should have been fucking honest with me that he was talking to someone else. I wouldn't have had sex with him 3 times, whether or not he had a girlfriend at any point during those 3 times!
I don't see him Jan 9 because the church is closed (the Pastor was informed that he was around someone who tested positive at his job, so he was being cautious), but I do see him the following weekend on Jan 15/16. The 15th for a church clean-up: his face was continuously pinched, especially when his mother gave me a hug and some food...and he gave me like 4 weird hugs when no one was around...like my anger was due to him not hugging me enough or some shit. Jan 16 was regular church and again, he tried to cop feels and I kept pulling away from him and pushing him away from me saying not to touch me and that he lied to me. I walked away and didn't look back.
During the week, specifically Jan 19, he texts me asking if he can come over. No sir. Well...just read the texts.
sorry if I hurt you...IF!? You don't call someone a side-chick, then turn around and say you don't have a girlfriend (making the side-chick comment a moot point) and expect there not to be hurt fucking feelings. No. You're a fully grown-ass adult. at 42 you know fucking better. And you don't know why you hurt me? fuck you very much! But thanks for acknowledging that I didn't do anything to deserve what was done to me!
Grandma from church was right. He doesn't know what he wants.
And what's a damn shame.
AND THE BIGGEST FUCKING THING! HE GAVE ME CHLAMYDIA! From that last time I had sex with him...after he was overheard talking about a girlfriend. FUCK YOU VERY MUCH AGAIN! I can't believe I nearly forgot that in all of this! I'm glad I word-vomited at the new doctor I saw on Jan 18. He asked if I wanted a test done and my knee-jerk reaction was to say no, but then there's a girlfriend in this equation, so of course, I'm not the only one he's having sex with! January 20, the doctor calls to tell me I have the STI/STD (which is it?!) and he put in the prescription for antibiotics, and thankfully it was caught early enough. My doctor asked how I was feeling about that. How do you think I feel doc!? At that exact moment, nothing. He suggested I contact anyone I had sex with to let them know and reminded me about their behavioral health options and that he put in the request for me to speak to the dietitian (that appt is on Jan 28).
Better things in another post. This is my last semester at LBCC and I'll be transferring in either the Spring or Fall of 2023. I have 3 or 4 universities in mind.
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He's a dick of the first order and I hope gets what's coming to him.
Good luck with school.
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I hope he gor checked and told whoever else he's been screwing around with.
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