I feel like a bitch

[simplyn2deep]

and maybe a tiny bit of a hypocrite?

But after the comment storm in the episode discussion thread at stevedannoslash 2 weeks ago, I made an post that I wanted to keep the episode discussion threads solely for discussing the episode and/or show...and then in yesterday's thread someone commented a lot (albeit in 2 comments) about the personal life of one of the actors.

So I messaged that person asking if they could refrain from doing that.

This is where I feel like a bitch and a bit of a hypocrite because I've been known to comment on the personal lives of the actors...giving information that I heard from other sources without the least bit of evidence as to if what I was saying was true or not, but never to the lengths that this person has gone.

I need to stop that. I need for the people in the community I mod & own to stop that.

Comments

[bluedelft.livejournal.com]

After reading the thread I know who it was you had to send the PM too. Warning...she will probably send you the longest PM you have ever seen telling you why she is right and you're wrong and end it with saying that it's your comm and you can do what you want.

((HUGS)) I think you did the right thing! You need to do what you feel if best for the comm. You've made a post about what should be in the episode discussions and it was ignored by this person. ((MORE HUGS))

[simplyn2deep.livejournal.com]

Thank you. So far it's been okay, but the long winded comments giving more information than is needed isn't necessary.

My PM to her was the second warning. Whether she responds or not (so far she hasn't), if she does it again, I will be banning her.

[bluedelft.livejournal.com]

I so agree in regards to the long winded comments. They drive me crazy and makes it sound like she is the only one who knows anything and we need her to 'educate' us.

If she does it again I don't blame you at all if you ban her. You've sent her PMs and have posted to the comm.

((MORE HUGS))